About the Book
My Marriage Sabbatical:
A MEMOIR OF SOLO TRAVEL AND LASTING LOVE
She wants to explore the world; he wants to focus on his career. After much discussion, at age sixty, marital therapist, Leah Fisher and her husband agree to be apart for a year, each pursuing their own dream while arranging for periodic reunions and nurturing a committed relationship. Leah’s solo journey leads her to a shaman in the Amazon, a Colombian drug runner, a massive earthquake, volunteer projects, loving families, and lots of swimming in warm oceans. The couple’s relationship changes…for the better. Unknowingly, they’ve been reconfiguring their idea of a good marriage, shaping one that better suits their needs in the second half of life. This helpful and often humorous book combines an intimate view of a long-term marriage, guidance in couples’ negotiation, healing adventures, and an inspiring example of individual expression and relational growth in later life.
My Marriage Sabbatical is about honoring personal dreams, maintaining marital friendship, and learning to cherish imperfect relationships.
Honest and Gutsy: Reviewers praise the author for not sugarcoating the realities of a long-term marriage or her own vulnerabilities during her solo journey.
Empowering for Older Women: Many readers feel the book is a "must-read" for women over 50 or 60 who are considering a "gray divorce" or seeking to rediscover themselves without abandoning their marriage.
Profound Self-Discovery: The narrative is described as a "well written and profound account" of a year-long, solo journey through countries like Costa Rica, Bali, and Colombia. Leah chose to live with local families as a doorway to cultural immersion.
Unique Approach to Marriage: The book is seen as a "vibrant, honest, and unique" alternative to traditional "eat, pray, love" stories, focusing on maintaining a connection while apart.
2025 Gold Medal Winner - Living Now Book Award (Relationships/Marriage)
2025 Book of Year Finalist -Forward INDIES - Travel (Adult Non-Fiction)
Five Star Reader Views (Memoir, Relationships/Marriage, Travel & Nature)
“Leah Fisher has written a book that will touch your heart, open your eyes, and excite your imagination. Her journey is one that many women would love to take. She and her husband reach an agreement that brings a deeply meaningful dream to life. Read this book; you may discover a dream of your own!”
—Lynne Twist, cofounder of the Pachamama Alliance and author of The Soul of Money and Living a Committed Life